edscissors's blog
"Hello + wrestle + goodbye" ... Or, let's be friends!
I know lots of people just like to meet up, wrestle ... and that's it: thanks a lot and goodbye. Fair enough.
In the years I've been on the site, however, I've made some superb friends. We meet for a (scissors) session from time to time - but between meetings we chat, about anything and everything. As friends do. I'm so grateful to MF for all the wonderful, interesting people I've met here.
Isn't it great that our wonderful site supports both styles?
FerrelFighter (41 )
2019-12-24 16:43Totally agree. 99+% of the guy's on here are great people, very supportive, fun to meet, awesome to battle, and I'm grateful to have met all that I have met.
edscissors (31 )
2019-12-23 23:07I've had these simple, kind comments ... plus some other messages direct to me.
One-off wrestle ("thanks ... that was great ... but good-bye for ever") or longer term friendship?
I absolutely won't judge which MF approach is "better". The former is of course fine and just perfect for many MF members.
But, personally (you will have guessed!) I LOVE the way an initial approach here on MF can, may, become a conversation. A conversation might become a meeting. Before or after a meeting, an MF conversation can become a friendship.
Intriguing that the MF fighters who just want a one-off meeting have not so far responded. Too busy wrestling with strangers, obviously.
Edward
Andi2 (3)
2019-12-23 02:23Edscissors, I totally agree. This site is like no other.
The majority of people on here are so supportive, not like the jerks on other sites.I have met one local guy who iv had several matches with, and we've been friends since I joined. I also have about 3 or 4 other long distance freinds who I chat with on a regular bases. I hope to meet them someday in person but I already feel comfortable with them as if I already know them. MF is a cozy place where you can meet so many unique gladiators. I love it.
sportart (6)
2019-12-21 21:46Good comment edscissors. Have met some wrestlers who are now also good friends.
Shadow Knight (77 )
2019-12-21 10:17I’ve made some great friends on here, all part of what I call the IDC (International Daisy Chain)